Whether or not you’re looking to spice things up under the sheets, cater to the needs of your clients as an escort or are just plain fed up with the same two vanilla sex positions –BDSM can be a marvelous act to explore to feed your sexual fires. There is nothing quite much like carefully threading the fine line between pain and pleasure, submission and dominance; and all of the other goodies that come with pushing each other to the edge of the world.
If you’re new to the quite limitless world of BDSM, here are some variations of sex positions you should definitely have on your checklist!
- The Leapfrog– This position is executed by having the receiver lie on their stomach, with their hands bound behind their backs as well as connected to both of their ankles so that the giver has easy access from behind. Granted that the receiver will be lying on their tummy for an indefinite period of time, trust that there might be some difficulty in breathing or anxiety at first –all of which should be solved with setting a flat pillow under his/her chest or stomach to allow for complete comfort.
- Spread Eagle – Uncomplicated, straight to the point and yet still a classic; you can never go wrong with the Spread Eagle. Tie both of the receiver’s hands and ankles to the bedposts (this can be done when they are facing up or down) and go to town! The Spread Eagle is a relatively easy pose to master, so it’ll be perfect to experiment with whilst still starting out with BDSM.
- The Frogtie– Not to be confused with the Leapfrog, the Frogtie is done with the receiver sitting up; and then having their ankles bent inwards and tied to their thighs. Arms would be placed behind their backs and then subsequently bound to their thighs –just to make mobility a little more restricted. The Frogtie is definitely a position for the more advanced and flexible, but can achieved if you’re propped up on a comfortable sofa set or edge of the mattress. The giver then positions himself right in front of the receiver’s open legs and gets busy –if he’s extra capable, he can even thrust while carrying the receiver! Now that’s skill.
- Over-Arm Bondage – This BDSM position involves only the receiver’s hands, which are placed above his/her head and tied behind their neck. Now it’s also important to note that having your hands bent at such an angle can be uncomfortable and prone to a sprain, so be sure to alert your partner if things are getting out of hand. Nevertheless, it is a great position that allows for oral access, so your partner can thrust in and out of your mouth; a twist from the regular blowjob/cunnilingus!