Niv

Tantric Touch and Somatic Sexology

Welcome to the wonderful world of my touch. I have been a bodyworker for nearly 30 years and in movement and education for the last 19. I have spent more recent years focusing on the pleasures and delights of erotic touch and sex education. Both tantric touch and sexological bodywork (somatic sex coaching) have amazing healing benefits beyond the scope of pleasure. If you are looking to explore your erotic nature in new and playful ways, or if you have something you are working with and would like a space to explore then I would love to support you on that journey. 

Please be aware this is NOT FULL SERVICE or an OFFERING OF SEX.

Instead this is a service that empowers you to explore your own horizons.  

Tantra touch

While a bodywork session can be truly magical, one that includes our erogenous zones invites the body to experience true delight. I have spent enough time in bodywork and teaching to really observe and notice my clients and their needs to provide a quality of touch that is personalised and unique. I spend time initially getting to know about your body and the touch it likes. I listen to your intentions for the session so there is no room for disappointment. I also have firm but loving boundaries around what a session entails and also respect and welcome boundaries of clients. 

Some BENEFITS you may experience are:

• Sampling new ways to experience pleasure through your whole body
• Exploration of ejaculation choice (retaining life force energy)
• Deep states of relaxation in your body
• Learning the art of receiving
• Explore the use of tools like breath to enhance your pleasure
• Better understanding of you anatomy 

What it CAN include:

* Chat and cup of tea/cool drink

• An Exquisite front and back body touch experience
• Head and foot caress (pressure to your desires)
• Option to explore a variety of styles of touch, soft, light, nails, tapping, spanking, deeper pressure, long and slow (if you get curious)
• Sensual, playful, teasing and building 
• Breathwork to enhance pleasure or working with ejaculation choice. 
• Education around touch (if requested)
• A deep feeling of relaxation and bliss

30mins Express Erotic Caress $150

45mins Full Body Tantra Touch $200

1hr Full Body Tantra Touch $250

1.5hrs Full Body Tantra Touch $325

2hrs Full Body Tantra Delight $400

Somatic Sex Coaching or Sexological Bodywork 

Somatic sex coaching is a wonderful way to get to know you, your body, sex and sexuality better. For most of us, sex education excluded the components of pleasure. It limited our capacity to get curious about sex as sex itself has been shrouded in shame and guilt. Often we are unaware of the grip the lack of education has on us. 

If you are curious, here are some things we can work together with:

• Masturbation Coaching and Orgasmic Yoga - learn new ways to explore you body. Shift old habits of touch which only limit your pleasure potential.
• Learn language to communicate better - we all want that.
• Boundaries and Consent - the better we understand and know our boundaries, the better we know what we want and how to ask for what we want.
• Ejaculation Choice - learn ways to pre-long your pleasure and find more choice around ejaculation. If you have difficulty in ejaculation/orgasm, are preorgasmic or experience delayed ejaculation, there is someone who can support your re-learning of your body.
• Difficulty Reaching Engorgement/Erection - look at what else is available to you.
• Vaginismus
• Core Erotic Theme
• Couples - lots of fun games and ways to reconnect or broaden your erotic play together; working with mismatched libidos; styles of sexual connection (tantra, partner engagement and role play); arousal patterns.
• Learn about your genital anatomy and that of your partner/s. Try new strokes and ways to pleasure.
• Learn how to orgasm 
• Sensory play - exploring the variety of ways touch can impact your body and how to play with range.
• Breathing techniques to expand your orgasmicity and make sex even better
• Body Image and how to love your body better
• Mapping touch - learning about where your body experiences pleasure and ways to make that better.
• Scar tissue remediation - if you have had surgery of any kind, childbirth, gut issues, endometriosis etc scar tissue may be present which can limit sensation and arousal. Remediation work can rewire the way your body experiences sensation. 
• Expand your belief systems on what sex, eroticism and pleasure can be.

AND MORE…. 

This session is about supporting your learning and tailoring to your curiosity and needs. 

FEES: Sexological Bodywork Session 1.5 hours $200

NOTE: This is one way touch (practitioner to client). This is NOT FULL SERVICE work or SEX. 

A bit about me… I have a genuine interest in people. I love to understand why we operate the way we do and I have enjoyed movement in my own body and understand that of others. Touch has been a strong style of communication in my life. From educating school students of all ages to teaching about yoga, acroyoga, circus and erotic embodiment, I have a skill in creating a safe, playful and open container to co-create experiences of learning, empowerment and healing. I’m queer and love the diversity of how we express ourselves and who we are as humans. I work with all genders, gender non-binary, queer and trans folk. All expressions are welcome. 

Location: Fairfield, QLD (NOT VICTORIA OR NSW)

Availability: I am available varying days including some weekends and evenings. When making appointments please forward the following information:

Name:

Number:

What service you would like and if relevant how long:

Day and time you would like an appointment:

What you are curious about:

Please read all of the above as many questions may already be answered there. 

I really look forward to working with you. Whether you know what you want or are just a bit curious about what else is possible, send me an email to the above address.

Niv xx

PS Some courses and professionals I have learnt from

Certificate in Sexological Bodywork (Institute of Somatic Sexology)

Certificate in Somatic Sex Coaching (Institute of Somatic Sexology)

Foundations of Somatic Sexology (Institute of Somatic Sexology)

Completed 3rd Year Research Project (focus on desire) in Sexological Bodywork (Institute of Somatic Sexology)

Introduction to Embodied Counselling (Institute of Somatic Sexology)

Urban Tantra (Barbara Carrellas)

ISTA

Mantak Chia

Like a Pro - Wheel of Consent (Betty Martin)

Wheel of Consent Facilitator

Rainbow Body with Kenneth Ray Stubbs

Training with Reverend Goddess Charmaine