Orpheus
#Orpheus
Quick Facts
- Gender Male
- Sexuality Bisexual
- Age 45
- Height 6' 2" / 189cm
- Hair Shaved Other
- Eyes Blue
- Body Athletic
- Ethnicity Caucasian
- Language English, Mandarin
- Category BDSM for Couples, Disabled, Groups/Parties, Ladies, Men and Transsexuals
About Me
ORPHEUS TENEBRAE
Melbourne VIC
Fantasy Dom & Service Top | Shadow work through kink
Professional Dom escort • Bisexual • Independent
Melbourne Incall & Outcall
Primary focus: female subs
Secondary: gay male subs & couples
About Me
Hello fellow cryptids and kinksters.
I am Orpheus Tenebrae — a weirdo from long ago who finally accepted who they are. I took my name from the Greek tale of a man who went as far as the Underworld in pursuit of his desire. Tenebrae is Latin for “Shadow”; shadow work and contemplating the dark to see the light run through everything I do. I believe in Sol Invictus — the unconquered sun.
I am a professional Dom escort and SWer based in Melbourne, bisexual, and committed to a kink lifestyle.
Knowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darknesses of other people.
“There is no coming to consciousness without pain.”
I entered the scene on a strange, circuitous path: psychedelics and ritual dance as catharsis, professional needle work in hospitals, teaching massage and Chinese medicine (the only acupuncturist who liked when it hurt), underground parties, suspensions and tattoos across Asia. I found community in the fringes of society.
Because I have lived as “the outsider” in different cultural landscapes, my practice always considers the cultural, societal and familial context of kink. There is no objective truth in desire — only the lived experience of the people in the room.
I am foremost a Fantasy Dom and Service Top. I prioritise scene design, narrative, psychological domination, and the transformative potential of pain and degradation. Ritual elements and aftercare that truly sees and understands matter as much as the act itself.
My primary focus is female subs. I also welcome gay male subs and couples.
I am particularly suited to newbies, fluid kinksters/switches, and those ready to explore within clear, mutually agreed guard-rails. I switch on occasion.
Melbourne incall and outcall available.
Single bookings with me are the main focus.
Double sessions with Breeana Beautiful are also available by arrangement.
Connection is key.
Things I Prefer In Private
- Affectionate cuddling
- Affectionate kissing
- BDSM
- Bi twin (double)
- Bondage
- Body Slide
- Costumes
- Costumes and role play
- Couples
- Fetish
- Filming
- Foot fetish
- GFE
- Kissing
- Light bondage
- Light spanking
- Maid
- MFF
- MMF
- Nurse
- Overnight stays
- Photography
- PSE
- PSE – With filming
- Role play
- School girl
- Secretary
- Sex toys
- Sexy lingerie
- Sexy shower for 2
- Social escort
- Strip tease
- Cuddling and Touching
- Dirty Talk
- Overnight
- Passionate Kissing
- Teasing
- Toys
- Escort
- Erotic Relaxation
- Full Service
- Wax Play
- Nipple Manipulation
- Cross Dressing
- Wrestling
- Boot Worship
- Latex / Leather Worshship
- Slave / Sub play
- Intimidation on You
- Submissive
- Relief
- FFM
My Reviews
Skills
• Anal & Anal Training
• Edging
• Impact Play
• Interpersonal Dynamics & Psychological Domination
• Needle Play & CNC (never on a first encounter)
• Scene Design
• Slave or Sub Training
• Restraints (experienced with most forms; novice at shibari — transparent about that)
• The transformative nature of pain and suffering
I Am Open To
• Female subs (primary)
• Gay male subs
• Couples
• New connections & clients
• Training
• Questions, collabs and those seeking to escape the mundane
• Worship
I Am NOT Open To
• ONS
• Drama
• Time-wasters and tyre-kickers
• Gossip or discussions of third parties
Rates & Availability
Melbourne Incall & Outcall
Pre-booking is strongly recommended.
A $100 deposit is required to secure the booking.
The deposit is non-refundable and is deducted from the final session fee.
Double sessions with Breeana Beautiful: rates on enquiry.
Extended, ritual-focused and multi-hour scenes available.
Please enquire with:
• Preferred date & time
• Incall or outcall
• Duration
• Single or double (with Breeana)
• Direction you wish the scene to take
Once the $100 deposit is received the time is held for you.
Current availability is updated regularly — message for the latest.
Safety, Screening & Protocols
Safety and clarity come first.
• All sessions are fully negotiated in advance. I do not do spontaneous or undefined play.
• Needle play and CNC are never offered on a first encounter.
• I maintain clear hard limits and expect the same from you.
• Safe words / signals and aftercare are non-negotiable parts of every scene.
• I prioritise mutual respect, honesty and emotional safety alongside physical safety.
Emergency Contact Protocol
For every booking I require a trusted emergency contact (name + phone number) who knows you are meeting me and the approximate end time of the session.
I also operate my own discreet check-in system.
If I have not made contact with my own check-in person within a set window after the agreed end time, they will follow the agreed protocol.
This protects both of us. Discretion is maintained at all times.
Time-wasters, boundary-pushers and those seeking free coaching or endless questions without intent to book will be declined.
Clear communication is the first act of respect.