Have you always wanted to spice things up with your partner but don’t know how? Or have you been looking for ways to relieve your partner’s stress in a pleasurable way? Lingam massage might be the answer you seek.
What is Lingam Massage?
Lingam translates to "symbol", a Hindu word used to represent the god Shiva. It describes the penis because the god Shiva takes the shape of a phallus.
Lingam massage is one of the most intimate massages for men; a tantric sex activity focusing on the worship of the penis.
Benefits of Lingam Massage
Though pleasurable, the lingam massage also has other benefits, which include;
Improved stamina: Lingam massage helps increase the sexual stamina of people with a penis, the massage focuses primarily on helping them connect with their sexual energy rather than just focusing on orgasms.
Increased Intimacy: Spending time exploring your partner's body, helping them reach orgasms, and assisting their body to relax can increase your connection with your partner.
How Is It Done?
Though it shares semblance with a hand job, the lingam massage is a slow, sensual activity. It can be done by:
- Arranging your tools: Interruption during the massage might dampen the mood. Therefore, it is advised that you get your tools ready. Some required tools are towels, massage oils, toys and scented candles.
- Creating an atmosphere:Thefeel of lingam massage can be elevated by playing soft, soothing and calm music in the background. Light candles, spray lovely scenting fragrances, pick fresh plush sheets, and ensure your privacy is guaranteed, as any interruption might disrupt the atmosphere.
- Getting in position:Exploring different positions is great, but the most common position is by sitting between the legs of your partner while their legs are open, facing you. You can also sit on the bed or on a cushion.
- Goingslow:First, give a full body massage to your partner, ignoring the penis. This helps your partner to relax their body. Communicate in a calm and soothing voice while you gently massage their body.
- Discovering the best rhythm and technique:The full body massage might have given your partner a hard-on, with their body relaxed, it is time to start the penis worship:
- Hold the penis with your index finger and thumb.
- Grip the penis with both hands. With one hand, grip the base of the shaft, and use the second to massage the head.
- Place light pressure on the balls.
- Caress the base of the penis' head and use a second hand to massage the head.
- Stimulate their prostate slightly.
- Communicate with your partner for a better understanding of their body.
- Introducing edging: Orgasm control is important in lingam massage because early ejaculation will defeat its purpose. When you notice a change in your partner's breathing, withdraw your hand and repeat this process until they eventually reach orgasm, this will make the orgasm satisfying and intense.
Now, it’s time to explore and enjoy the beauty of Lingam massage that will leave a lasting impression on your partner!