If you’ve been in the business of escorting for as long as I have –it’s no secret that anal is hot and more in demand than ever. Whether it may be an indirect effect of the Kardashian ‘booty’ culture or something along those lines, there’s no denying that you’re going to cross paths with a client that will definitely want to try it out.
The idea of taking the road less travelled can be daunting, especially when there are the fair share of myths surrounding the act. Will it hurt? Will there be poop? Would the risk of infections be higher? Here’s 5 hacks to both answer your questions and get you started on a whole other side of pleasure.
- Anal foreplay is a thing – Invest on butt plugs, beads, vibrating dildos; you’re going to need them. It’s entirely possible to jump into anal the first time with lube, but chances are it’s still going to be a little uncomfortable. If you warm up that sphincter yourself a couple of days with toys, it’s going to feel much, much better for all sides.
- Consider an enema –It’s highly improbable (that if you wash before, of course) that you’ll come in contact with poop; so that shouldn’t be a factor to scare you away from ever trying anal. Even so, getting an enema just incase wouldn’t be such a bad idea after all! Getting an enema is basically just having a saline solution squirted right up there to clear out bowels –so you can feel much more confident and way less self conscious when you should be focusing on nothing but enjoying yourself to the fullest extent.
- Analingus is an awesome prep for the real thing – Known more for being titled as a ‘rimjob’, analingus is a fun form oral sex that is administered on your partner’s anus. This form of foreplay doesn’t just get the job done, it also feels amazing and will definitely keep your partner aroused and relaxed enough for penetrative sex.
- Communication is more important than you think – Just like any fetish, having anal warrants a whole lot of proper communication before anything should be set in motion. If you’re feeling particularly unsure about the act, be sure to let them know that you’ve never done this before! There’s no shame in admitting your anal-ginity, and it would make things a whole lot less awkward if your client understands your reservations and initial hesitancy when you might or might not struggle during the process.
- Breathe in, breathe out! – If you’re not used to practicing anal sex, chances are you’re going to be just a little nervous for most of it; but don’t fret! The body’s natural instinct is to breathe quicker and shallower when under distress, so always take a minute to focus on your breathing. This will also help with relaxing your anal muscles as well, and will make penetration just that much easier and painless.