If you’re starting out as an escort, first dates with clients can get a little tricky –and a whole lot awkward if you don’t come prepared. Understandably, it’s much harder to accept that this is a normal date when you already know what comes after. Are you making this worth his time? His money, at least?
First dates are stressful as it is, but throw in something that’s supposed to be a transaction and it’s undeniable that you’re going to feel some initial hesitation about the whole thing. A good rule of thumb for first time escort dates would be something like: -
- Bar Hopping – Instead of heading out to one bar and wrapping up the night with the same sights, sounds and smells; offer up the suggestion of visiting multiple bars in one night. At the end of the night, ask him/her what was her favorite and why; you can definitely gauge the kind of person they are by their answer.
- An arcade/carnival – The idea of heading somewhere meant for more romantic-is dates with an escort can be a little intimidating, but there’s actually a scientific reason for this suggestion. Research shows that sexual activity is heightened when people have come in contact with extreme, adrenaline-rushing activities. So head on over to that roller coaster, and maybe make one of your own right after ;)
- Beach dates – Unconventional, yes. But beach dates are a great way to get up close and personal to someone you’re planning on get frisky with right after. Offer to rub them down with sunscreen, accidentally let your bra come undone –the possibilities to build up for the real thing are quite endless.