2. Clean up a little – Make sure that your space (bedroom, hotel room, the works) is decent enough to have company over. Pretend this is just a very fortunate date –and you’re trying to impress him/her to your fullest extent. Even though you might not have a behemoth budget to spend at the Ritz, try your best to also choose a hotel or motel that is presentable enough; and not one that has more creepy crawlies than it does actual people.
3. Why not show her around? – This only applies to if you’re inviting her over to your house. Show her around the place, get her a drink and offer up some refreshments even. We know what you paid for, but no human being likes to be blatantly rushed, so have some manners!
4. Always pay upfront – Never tell an escort that you’ll only be paying after service. Not only is that an outright violation of their guidelines, it also reflects pretty badly on your character and the person you are. You can almost guarantee him/her not coming back for second visits.
5. Ask, ask, ask! – Just because he/she has been given the task to pleasure you does not mean that everything you’d want is fair game. Escorts are put at a higher risk than anyone to forms of sexual harassment and violence, so it’s necessary to ask if whatever you’re performing is alright. Want to handcuff her? Ask. Spank her a little? Ask. The heat of the moment is not an excuse to get rough and disrespectful, and plus, being kind and attentive will certainly earn you some brownie points in her book!