Having casual, no-strings-attached sex with someone that you’re not in a relationship has become such a widespread phenomenon that it isn’t rare to find the term “friends with benefits” or “bed buddies” being thrown around. Having a no strings attached relationship might sound easy enough, but when you add in all the extra weight of a romantic relationship such as jealousy, catching feelings, awkward introductions to your friends –it gets complicated enough.
When Is a Good Time for NSA?
Overall, the best time for an NSA relationship eventually depends on your general attitude towards sex. Tina Tessina, an author of books regarding family and relationship has even mentioned that those who associate sex with love and commitment should stay far far away from it! However, if you are more open to the idea of sleeping with someone and possibly never hearing from then an NSA would be possible.
Many of those engaging in sex with benefits have all agreed that these benefits can even go beyond physical pleasure –which means that having an NSA might even be a good option if you’re looking to get over your ex, snag a rebound, or even just get all of that good stuff that comes with a relationship without having to commit. An NSA is a great way to reconnect with yourself, figure out who you are and eventually have all of that transfer into your future partner.
Some tips to follow during an NSA would definitely be; being honest, experimenting and always opt for keeping your options open. Sticking to these 3 golden rules would definitely give you a heads up when it comes to an NSA! Be honest with what you want and don’t, take this time to experiment sexually and always opt for preferably having this type of relationship with more than one person to avoid catching feelings.