Wax play is available for anybody wishing to spice up their sexual life. It's a type of thermal play or sensations play that originated in the BDSM world, and no, we're not talking about shaving every strand of hair off your body. Ice cubes melting on your body, frozen sex objects, and wax drips are all examples of temperature play.
It's a widespread fallacy that to experience wax play; you must be an expert or a member of the BDSM society. Breaking news: You don't! As an escort, you can do wax play at your residence's convenience, either by yourself or with a client. Additionally, there aren't many items needed to get started. But first, be sure you have the skills and equipment necessary to play appropriately prior to you starting splashing wax throughout yourself. If you understand what we mean, proceed with a plan to avoid getting burnt.
Prepare Your Wax
Never just grab the first fragrant candle you see. That pleasant-smelling one you received as a present many years ago? You don't want it to leak throughout your skin. Those candles burn with a lot of heat, which could result in burns. For wax play, you'll require particular candles that burn at a cooler temperature and are designed to be in close proximity to your body.
Body massaging candles are excellent for novices if you are beginning off. To begin dripping, burn the candle, pause between fifteen and thirty minutes, blast it out, and allow it to cool. Choose a soy-based candle if you wish to increase the level of heat. Paraffin candles provide an additional sting. It would help to exercise caution when using them because they are warmer than massaging candles.
Additionally, there are additional wax products for burning than massaging candles, a few of which you might already possess at home. Birthday candles, as well as crayons, are suitable for usage because of their low burning temps.
Make A Temperature Check
Check the temp before you start spraying wax across yourself or your client. After lighting the wick, the wax should flow onto the forearm from six inches overhead. (As a client, a similar idea is also valid if you're testing it out on an escort)
Permit yourself to experience the feeling; if it isn't pleasant for you, raise your arm (which is carrying the candle) upward. The more space between you and the flame, the less powerful the sensation will be since the wax will not be as hot when it gets to your skin. The feeling is stronger the closer the distance.
Do Not Spill The Wax On Delicate Regions
Hold the wax far from your face, hair, as well as genitalia while you investigate its sensations. Wax is hard to remove from hair (or hairy parts of the body) and may damage delicate skin. Applying wax to yourself or your client is simple on the legs and arms. Continue with caution, as some areas, such as the belly and legs, may be more sensitive.
Always, Always Be In Communication
A crucial point: communication is essential while engaging in anything sexual, including wax play, with a mate. Lights for traffic are a basic scheme. The words "green" and "yellow" denote motion forward, "pause and weigh in," while "red" denotes an abrupt stop. Even if you've attempted wax play previously, don't presume your partner is okay. Have an appropriate word scheme in place whenever you play with wax.
Here Are Some Suggestions For Using The Wax Throughout Sex
It's time for the big event when your wax is warm and melted, and the setting feels comfortable. Wax can be used in sex in a huge variety of ways, such as:
• Giving your client a sensual rubdown while utilizing a massaging candle. (Begin by massaging their back; if they are interested, move on beneath the waistline.)
• Applying it on various erogenous locations (so long as they are not the previously specified hypersensitive or hairy areas).
• Applying wax to the body to create designs.
• Throughout masturbation, pour wax on yourself to change things from your regular practice.
• Include it in your play by putting on a blindfold or servitude. The second person may pour hot wax onto the confined or blindfolded companion (or both!).
• Putting it to use as a BDSM penalty.
Conclusion
Keep in mind that we are working with hot wax. Therefore, ensure that you've got a container filled with water and a cloth nearby to remove the wax. After the waxing procedure, the two of you should unwind with a mug of tea, some hugging, or another soothing activity.
This now might represent an excellent opportunity to switch massages for hot wax if you haven't previously.