Of course, the way we are all socialised in most societies is that women in particular, can only be with one man, certainly at a time, and originally, at all. Men on the other hand were forgiven for giving in to their desire to stray. I found that a desire to be with others is a by-product of our ancestor's mating strategies but as a society we think monogamy is preferable . That's why I prefer to think of myself and many others I meet as monogamish.
Unlike many species of birds, such as the bald eagle, we have been socialised towards monogamy, precisely because for humans it doesn't come naturally. We have been taught that it is better for society if we stay with one partner and after all, sexual desire is not that important, compared with other things.
Oh really?! If this were the case then escorts like me, who make a good living from entertaining men (who are often married) could not exist. There would simply be no market as people would be happily married after pairing up, just like bald eagles. The truth is that whilst humans fall in love and get jealous when their loved one may be having fun with someone else, that jealous person may also be lusting after their own crush. Our brains seek variety and whether we do it openly (as I do) or in secret like most do, from time to time we seek a different body to be with.
Sexual boredom and the lack of intimacy caused by sexual rejection is one of the leading causes of marital unhappiness. Wives often do not realise the crucial need that men have for the intimacy and personal validation that healthy and frequent sexual contact provides. Similarly, women want the romance of the early courtship to feel desired, and the routine of Wednesday night and Saturday morning between shopping and the kids is not really satisfactory. Their attraction for each other diminishes, but their sex drive in general does not. Even animals don't mate well in captivity.
If the rejected husband just wanted to 'get off', he could. But if he is smart, he will visit an understanding and sexy escort, who can provide the human touch he is craving. If he isn't smart, he may find himself open to temptation at work and affairs cause all sorts of trouble and when discovered nearly always end in separation and devastation all around.
The best thing is to find someone who won't get emotionally involved and pose a threat to the primary relationship. An escort is a brilliant choice for men who either want diversity without drama, or a couple who are open to exploring sexual fantasies with a third person who knows the ropes so to speak.
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