Perhaps the expression “mindful sex” is somewhat foreign to most of us. It’s normal. Think about the best sex you’ve ever had. Go on, search your mind and pick. You’ve probably had lots of amazing sex your whole life until this moment but why that one? The simple answer is that you were probably very much present when you were exploring that particular experience. By being present I mean you weren’t distracted either physically or psychologically. You took ample time to enjoy every bit of the moment until it’s conclusion.
Climaxing during sex is like the ultimate goal of having sex but is that really everything that there is to lovemaking? Yes, men ejaculate all the time after intercourse but what sets one experience apart from another is really what happens prior to ejaculation. This is the sole purpose of this article: guiding you on how to explore mindful sex.
The most important criterion to satisfy before mindful sex can be achieved is to be relaxed. You need your mind to be fully engrossed in the moment, so, its statutory that it’s in a relaxed state. Try to explore non sexual ways to get the fire started. Close your eyes and allow your escort to do the work on your body. Massages are a good way to help your muscles calm down and be further relaxed. When you’re well relaxed it naturally becomes easy to focus on what’s happening in the moment. Allow your escort to take control. Let her dictate the pace of the moment.
Sensual body touch is also a very good way to settle into the moment. Don’t rush it. Caress the wonderful places on your escort’s body, loosen up and allow yourself to be touched in the most sensual way.
Understand that mindful sex is not a quiet one. It doesn’t necessarily mean that every person that screams during sex is having a mindful sex. Unquiet in the sense that moans effortlessly and uncontrollably fall off your lips when being explored by your escort, same with when you’re exploring her on the right places.
You can’t be thinking about your job or your to-do list for tomorrow when you’re on this road. It doesn’t work and it probably never will. A perfect way to explore this art is to ensure that you’re all about NOW, yes, the moment. Everything else will be attended to later, so, set it aside and focus. Try as much as you can to focus on the job on hand and don’t think about orgasm too much. You shouldn’t have a reason to reach out for quick orgasm if you’re enjoying the spell of mindful sex. If you don’t feel like you want the moment to be sustained much longer then you might not be having it right. Readjust and make it better.