Sugar dating sites such as Seeking Arrangement and What’s Your Price having been growing in popularity over the past few years. These sites allow sugar babies – usually young women – to seek out potential older, wealthier men known as sugar daddies who will compensate them financially for their time. In a typical sugar baby relationship, sugar babies receive a monthly allowance from their daddy and in exchange see them several times per month.
It goes without saying that there are a number of perks that come with such an arrangement. Some sugar babies receive allowances of up to £3000 a month from a single sugar daddy – and many babies see multiple men at a time. On top of this, many babies expect designer gifts, shopping trips, and luxury holidays. The most attractive element of sugar dating seems to be the financial freedom it offers, especially to young students that use their arrangements to help pay for the tuition.
Being a sugar baby is a lifestyle that suits young, attractive individuals that know what they want. The standard of men that you date will likely be high; as many of the men on these sights are wealthy successful individuals that are business savvy. Therefore, you can learn a lot from these men. They are often wise, older and potentially, if you found the right sugar daddy, you could learn a lot from them.
Of course, you don’t receive something for nothing and usually in these arrangements there is a catch. It goes without saying that for most sugar daddies’ sex is part of the deal. Although many sugar babies will deny this, sex a few times a month is usually expected in exchange for money. Of course, companionship, dates and company are involved too.
So what are the cons of sugar dating? The worst part is receiving judgment from friends and family who do not fully understand the concept of sugar dating. Many see it as glamorised prostitution and will vilify you for trying to create a better life for yourself. Also, like any form of dating there are always going to be creeps and people that make you feel uncomfortable, so you have to stand your ground and always make sure to keep yourself safe.
So, you’ve considered the pros and the cons, and you want to jump in and find yourself a sugar daddy. Well there are several ways to go about this. There are many websites that help you find potential sugar daddies. When you arrange to meet you should look classy and act sophisticated. If you’re going out for a fancy meal, for example, wear a little black dress, matched with a pair of designer heels and handbag. You can never go wrong with some elegant silver jewellery too. And when it comes to the all-important question of money there are multiple ways to approach it. Some babies expect money for a first date, while others will not bring up the topic until the second date. One good way of starting the conversation is to ask if they’ve had any arrangements before and go from there.