Not everyone is completely comfortable with voicing their desires when it comes to sex. This also goes for dirty talk and revealing your naughty thoughts to your clients. If you consider yourself to be shy and want to become a better escort by talking dirty with your clients, you’re in the right place!
Here are some tips on mastering dirty talk in order to be the amazing escort you desire to be.
Tip 1: Learn Dirty talk and Get Used to It
Some people are lucky and words come easy to them. However, others have a tendency to try to articulate their thoughts. If you are clueless about how to talk dirty, something to consider is looking at how others do it. It can be a good thing to seek different types of dirty talk as well as to see how other people may use it.
Another way to become familiar with dirty talk is by reading erotica stories.
After a while, you will be familiar with the different types of dirty talk as well as how to use it. Once you are familiar with it, you can use it to your advantage. You'll be the best escort they've ever had in no time.
Tip 2: Try Out Different Scenarios in Your Head
If you are unsure of how to talk dirty to your clients in real life, one option is that you could play out scenarios in your head.
Start by imagining yourself with your client. What might you say to them during sex? Imagine what you as an escort would like for your sexy new client to say to you.
Playing the scenarios out in your head can be a great way for you to become comfortable with talking dirty to your clients.
Tip 3: Whisper
Consider sitting next to your sexy client and whispering into their ear.
Tell your client exactly what it is that you would like. Say something along the lines of "I'm so wet/hard for you, I need you." Once you become comfortable with this, you will be able to work your way into saying these things out loud.
If it helps, take your client’s hand and show them where you would like to be touched as you are whispering in their ear.
Remember, it is your job as an escort to let your partner know what you crave from them.
Tip 4: Expand Your Vocabulary
Talking dirty gives you as an escort the needed excuse to have a foul mouth. You should avoid using words such as “penis” at all times. Unless you are role-playing and it calls for it, of course. Consider using the word "cock" or "dick" instead.
A way to expand your vocabulary when it comes to talking dirty is by ready erotica stories. You could even listen to them If you wanted.
As an escort, it is important to expand your sexual vocabulary as much as possible.
Tip 5: Practice
You do not have to have your partner directly in front of you in order for you to do some dirty talking. As the old saying goes, “practice makes perfect.” Dirty talk is no exception to this.
In order for you to practice, you coud consider talking dirty on your own as you are masturbating. You could also fantasize about having sex with your partner while doing this in order to heat things up.
You could start by only talking in your head while gradually getting into taking out loud.
Tip 6: Relax and Have Fun
The entire point of dirty talk is to have fun with your sexual partner. If you find that talking dirty leaves you feeling overwhelmed or self-conscious consider taking a break. You can always try again later.
Relax and have fun with it. If you find that dirty talking is not for you, that’s completely fine! Being an escort doesn't always mean that you have to push your boundaries. Only do what feels comfortable for you as an escort.
Hot new clients will be all over you in no time.
In Conclusion
Dirty talking can be a great way to bring some extra excitement into your sex life as an escort. Keep it simple, and remember not to overthink it too much. The only thing that matters is that you as well as your client are having fun with it. You should also remember to never push yourself into doing or saying something that you are not comfortable with!