Some of the props you will need for a session with a slave will be a variety of different size
dildos, ass plugs, strapon harness, an enema and a vibrating wand. Latex gloves, a riding crop, flogger, blindfold, rope and nipple clamps can also be great fun to use, so keep them in the kit.
Consultation
Escort’s viewpoint
If you are an escort that does offer these services, please ensure you charge accordingly. Unlike other forms of sexual pleasure, it is an additional service that requires a lot of forethought, planning and consultation if the session is to go ahead without hiccups. Advertise these services on your profile and invite men to contact you before hand to map out their requirements. Some guys will get a kick out of you administering an enema but make sure you don’t offer it as part of the deal - it’s an extra service.
Client’s viewpoint
If it is your first time, check that your escort has knowledge in this area. She won’t want a negative review on the site if she’s tried to pull one over on you and will want it to be great. If you don’t mind having a rookie experience (as sometimes it can be too intimidating coming in with the escort as a complete expert) then by negotiation you can create a mutual learning and pleasure space. (She may even give you a discount for being a guinea pig). If you have hard limits, you should tell her, and she should ask you. Hard limits could be: no humiliation, no anal penetration, no blindfolds etc. Think about what position you’d most prefer if you’re wanting to be pegged, on your knees, on your back or even reverse cowboy!
Preparation
If anal play and prostate stimulation with a finger or dildo is something that you want, eat sparingly the day before and try and clean yourself out. The escort may offer use of an enema for extra, but if you do it before you meet up you won’t have any awkwardness.
Having a warm bath/shower can really help to relax.
If you have a porn femdom fantasy that particularly turns you on, send her a link and she’ll get an idea of what you’d like from her. It’s easier than verbally explaining.
Derriere delights - just a tickle - or all the way?!
If you’re new to anal play (on yourself) you need to discuss with the escort what your expectations may be. I can assure you the erotic setting will not feel the same as a Doctor’s prostate examination. If you just want some fingering, let her know. It can feel awesome to have a bj while a skilled finger is rubbing against your prostate … so some of my clients tell me.
If you are a seasoned anal player, either by yourself or with others, then you can enjoy just lying back and letting her dominate you and let you have it.
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