In an ongoing sense of client discussions for this blog I thought many of my lovely readers would like to know a real life testimony from a client of mine who we’ll call Bill. He was in his early 50s and had been really stressed at work and his sex life was really suffering as his libido was through the roof, but his penis wasn’t cooperating. This sort of problem was made worse because while he could be really in the mood, and his girlfriend was all ready for more than foreplay, however his penis didn't always cooperate. Not being able to predict when it would get hard took its toll on him, and after some months he was unable to sustain enough of an erection to make love completely.
It caused a lot of strain with his girlfriend as she felt inadequate to please him and his performance problems made her feel undesirable. Bill had seen the spam emails about Viagra promising cures for erectile dysfunction but he was smart enough to not get it online. He didn't often go to the doctor and he didn't want his girlfriend to know that he was considering it until he'd tried it on his own first.
His doctor was understanding and confirmed that he also had been using Viagra from time to time for several years. He did a thorough examination to make sure there were no underlying health problems, for example any cardiovascular problems. Fortunately for Bill he didn't have any reasons health wise.
After Bill left the clinic and got the script filled, he read the instructions carefully and was sure not to take it on a full stomach. His girlfriend didn’t live with him so he was able to do a trial run and see how it felt. He took his first little blue tablet and started to watch some porn. Although getting hard with porn on his own had never been a problem, he was amazed at the strength of his erection. He hadn’t been that hard for years. He enjoyed the effects and felt pretty confident that when the time came to make love to his girlfriend things would be more like old times.
It was at this point that he came to visit me after discussing his predicament. He basically wanted a ‘trial run’ with a live flesh and blood woman to ensure that the Viagra worked just as well as it did with him in private. Without going into details, it was a great success and he couldn’t wait to try it with his girlfriend.
Sure enough, after they went out for a nice dinner, they started fooling around before bed. He excused himself for a bathroom break and took a Viagra. The next half hour of foreplay afterwards was just like old times. She felt truly desired and for the first time in months, their intimacy was not strained or awkward, but really natural. After only a few more times, he was able to ditch the Viagra as it helped him get over his performance anxiety.