Most men watch porn. Some watch it a lot. Some watch it so much that they are unable to get aroused without it. Their brains and penises have been wired to respond to the images on the screen doing increasingly extreme things. But let's just get back to the ones who watch it a 'regular' amount.
Most societies, (and ours included) has a lot of shame associated with nudity, sexuality and therefore sexual things are done in secret. In fact, the secrecy is probably part of what makes it so exciting. Erotic feelings are associated with secrecy and are heightened by the risk of shame and fear of exposure.
So in a way, men using porn to get off makes it more exciting for them because in all likelihoods they mainly do it in secret away from suspicion of their wives or girlfriends. It's often a way to blow off stress and in a way it is polite because what you're trying to do is have that need filled without human interaction.
Sometimes it may not really be about sex, but escape. Trust me I know. I use porn and masturbation for the very same reason. (Yes women do masturbate and some of us enjoy watching other people doing secret things). You'd rather not bother her if you just want release, what with the meal the , backrub and listening to her day at work. Sometimes all you want is some alone time, some random (and different) titties and let the dopamine wash your brain.
But what happens when she asks you, "Do you watch porn and jerk off when I'm not home?"
Correct answer: "Yes honey I do. Does it bother you?"
This is the correct answer because it's honest, and if she's like many women, if the sex between you has decreased she will want to know why. Chances are she's already fished through the browser cache or found your (ahem) "work invoices" folder on your laptop.
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