Having an orgy has always been something I’ve wanted to do. I’d had a few threesomes before but I‘d never had an orgy, and it had always been on my to-do list. Weirdly enough though, when it finally happened, I hadn’t even planned it, it was completely spontaneous. What made it even weirder was that it happened with my girlfriends and a few people we had met at a club, which was not how I had imagined it at all.
So, we had been drinking almost the whole day and through the night. It was a friend’s 23rd birthday and the celebrations started in a pub at around noon. We stayed there for hours and then moved onto a few different bars. As the night went on, we went to a club where we met this group of guys. I vaguely remember chatting to one of them, he was confident but not too cocky and was a good-looking guy, probably in his early twenties so obviously I invited him back to the house, and his friends had been getting on with mine, so they came too.
After we arrived home with these guys things got going pretty quickly. I don’t remember a lot of it but from what I do remember it was the guys that brought up the idea. Anyway, I got to try a lot of things that I had always wanted to do that night like double penetration, double blowjobs and sex with all four of them. I had an amazing night, but I think I definitely learned how not to have an orgy.
The drinking, for example probably wasn’t a good idea because I think that a few of the girls probably wouldn’t have got involved if they had been sober, and while I don’t think they regretted it, I’m pretty sure they would never do it again. Consent is so important if you’re going to have group sex and being so drunk that you don’t remember a lot the next morning is definitely not recommended. It blurs the lines of consent and that is never a good thing. You should be completely aware of what you’re doing. Don’t get me wrong, a couple of glasses of wine is fine but you should still have your wits about you.
Also, I think an orgy with people you don’t have to look in the eye the next morning is probably good way to go. Of course, doing it with your friends has its perks, as you all know each other and know that you are safe and can trust each other. However, it can get pretty awkward. For the most part, everything with us girls went back to the way it was before. There was one girl that seemed to have a hard time looking me in the eye for a few days, but she got over it eventually.
For the most part, I’d say that having an orgy is not for everyone but if you’re an open-minded person, it is definitely something you should try. I think that maybe it’s a good idea to think about who you’re doing it with though, because it’s really not worth risking a solid friendship for one night of fun, especially when it’s so easy to find people that want to get involved. For me, things turned out fine, but if you’re going to do this with friends remember that you have to look these people in eye afterwards, which sounds fine but you don’t know what you might be doing to each other in an orgy situation.