In a time that seems long gone now, phone sex replaced the void that distance would fill. Hearing the person you were attracted to (or wanted some sexual activity with) on the phone, all while each has their own fun was the most enticing moment in a situation where distance or circumstances just didn’t allow for physical contact.
Even though phone sex was quite amazing, all that could really be done was to hear the person’s voice all while talking dirty to each other, however, thanks to the advances in technology, this is no longer the case!
Instant messaging has now taken the stage, with a lot more than just words! Emojis, photos, text and voice memos are now all part of the texting experience and, of course, it has created a new form of “phone sex” called sexting!
It doesn’t have to be complicated, sexting is incredible and, with COVID-19 and a lot of lockdowns, it can also become quite the norm for some time.
If you are new to sexting and have never done it before, we are here to help you and give you some tips and tricks on how to have the perfect sexting session.
Create The Setting And Roll With It
Creating the right setting is always a good foundation when starting to sext. If the reality you and your partner (or companion) find yourselves in is not really that sensual, then creating a fictional setting can greatly improve and enhance the libido.
Remembering that one time you had sex in public with that person or, describing a fantasy you have that you have not done yet, can create a good foundation to start working on it.
As you go through it, make sure to flow through the words naturally, what happens, happens, and you either roll with it or cut it by the root!
Don’t Stick To Just Text
Luckily, in the times we are living in, we are able to send pictures and voice memos all in the same text, so why not take advantage of it while we are at it?
Adding a naughty picture in the middle of the text of whatever body part you are wanting to share with your partner (or companion) is a great way to truly bring the libido and excitement to a whole new level!
The same goes for videos and voice memos. Showing your gorgeous naked body to the person you’re sexting or making sure they hear your moaning or enticing comments is the sort of material that would drive them crazy in a heartbeat.
Keep Yourself Comfortable And Enjoy It
Whether you are in bed, on the sofa or even on a chair, making yourself comfortable and touching yourself while the sexting is happening is the most fun part of it. Much like phone sex, sexting is all about the sexual activity “with each other” all while remaining at a distance, therefore, enjoying masturbation at the same time will enable you to enjoy the full scope of the experience.
Keep yourself comfortable and enjoy all that sexting has to offer!