After 50 Shades of Grey was introduced to the public eye; the movie started to get way more attention than intended from a surprising target group –middle aged men. This raises the question on just how interesting it is to have a bunch of men who go secretly crazy over a chick flick supposedly just intended to capture female audiences.
So why are more men enjoying the ropes of BDSM now ever than before?
While it is about sensual pleasure, BDSM definitely isn’t just all about rough sex, or so everyone else would make it seem. The logic behind BDSM can be applied through tops and bottoms –which are those who enjoy inflicting pain and those who enjoy receiving pain. Otherwise known as dominants and submissives; the power dynamic to tops and bottoms can be switched up at any time needed.
So what does this got to do with my men love it so much?
Being in the escort industry for as long as I have, it’s interesting to note just how amazing a sexual experience can become when you take orgasming out of the equation. Comparing the act of BDSM to edging, an experience can be significantly heightened when a man become less focused on his orgasm and more about trying to hold out long enough, for in this case, his mistress.
The mistress is also mysterious role, meant to dominate and challenge the normative mannerisms and mindset of men –another reason why dominatrixs and mistresses come in great demand in the escorting business. Men hire you to power over them, since they might also hold a position of power and significance in their real life, which makes the shift in dynamic through their sex life all the more fresh and exciting.
Xoxo,
Rose.