One thing that is very common is how anxious some men can be when they are meeting an escort for the first time. This may be your first time meeting an escort and it is natural that you become anxious especially if you are the shy type.
You should note that each escort does their things in different ways. Just ensure that you are flexible. Your appointment with the escort could take place in your house, her location, or even a hotel depending on your preferences.
Since you don’t know what to expect from the escort as a first timer, here is a general guideline that will help you out in your first booking with an escort.
Before her arrival
If your place or a hotel is the preferred choice of meeting, ensure that it tidy and neat. Your bathroom should be especially clean since both of you will probably spend some time before and after your liason there.
Just like a date, if you are well dressed and clean, you will make a very good first impression. Just make sure everywhere is set before she arrives so that you just need to get down to business once she comes.
When she arrives
Be very friendly but a bit restrained when she arrives. Treat her as though she is a regular visitor to your home. Allow her some time to relax and observe her surroundings. Make her feel very comfortable with you.
Give her the agreed fee as soon as she has settled. This will enable you to concentrate on the business of the day. Most escorts prefer their fee paid in an envelope so that it looks formal and organized.
Getting things started
This is one of the hardest parts for a first timer because you may not know how to start. Most escorts usually take charge of this part because they know exactly what to do since they are professionals.
However, there are some that may want you to do the starting. In this case, you have to be careful in your approach because it is quite interesting getting intimate with a person you are just meeting for the first time.
Personally, I will prefer to start off by offering her a glass of wine while I go to the bathroom for a shower. Some chatting and a little touching each other may lead to more heavy foreplay. Don’t be scared to admit to her that you are nervous.
If you are not sure if you are doing the right thing, you can allow the lady to take charge. Feel free to ask if you could kiss her or hold her hand. Ladies appreciate men that ask them of their opinion. Escorts are professionals, so allow them take charge so that you get the best experience.
The sex part
When it comes to this stage, you do not need to bother much on how to satisfy your lady, this is where they show their expertise since it is part of the services they render. You should keep in mind not to do what you don’t want.
Safe sex is very important, so your escort will make condoms and lube available. She will also ensure that the condom is put correctly. Ask for a blow job or hand job if you want. Just relax and do what feels good to you.
It’s polite to ask before touching her in sensitive places and also try to respect her decisions. It is important to respect her if she tells you to be gentler and to change position. Let her trust you and expect the best.
Finishing up
Before your appointment time is up, try to finish up with some chatting and cuddling. When she is ready to leave after shower, try to complement and appreciate her for a good job. Also, tip her as a way to show that you enjoyed her company.