This story will not be for the faint of heart so, I’m giving a fair warning to anyone reading this that it might upset you, especially if this has happened to you as a fellow escort. With that said, it is pretty clear what I do for a living. I am an Australian escort that has worked mainly in Melbourne. Don’t get me wrong, I absolutely adore what I do and I do not think I want to stop anytime soon.
This story happened when I was still very early in the game. At the time that this happened, I had only had about one or two other clients that I had gone on dates with and they had all been very good. The clients had been very respectful and they’ve never made me feel uncomfortable or pushed back in any way, except for the one whom this story is about.
There were no red flags when he was booking me. We agreed on the services he wanted to get out of me as well as the fee, everything seemed very fine. He wanted me to go to his house and because I hadn’t had any bad experiences thus far, I agreed to it. I have to confess, when I got there, I was a bit starstruck. His house was absolutely massive and might have been the most beautiful house I had ever seen.
Once I got inside, we went to the couch and had some wine. Everything was going incredible. We were laughing, talking and truly having a good time, until he decided to put his hands on me. We start kissing and we start grabbing each other more fervently by the second and then, he whispered in my ear “ I want to fuck your ass”.
Now, I am certain that for a lot of people, that is totally fine, however, I specifically state in my profile that I do not want to do anal and that is definitely off-limits so, I was taken aback by that. Regardless, that was not a show stopper for me, after all, I just said no and I expected him to respect that, however, and, as you can guess, that is not what happened. He kept pushing, he kept trying and he started using his strength to truly push me to do it and that is when I had enough and I just punched him in the face.
Needless to say, after that punch, I stormed out of that house and never came back. That day, I learnt a very big and important lesson. I learnt that when I mean no, I have to make sure that I sound like I am putting the final word, rather than being shy about it. After that time, I’ve had other clients ask me the same but I always made certain that my denial of that activity made them know that I was dead serious and that I was not going to change my mind on the subject. When you are uncomfortable with something or someone is pushing your boundaries, learn how to say know and how to mean it enough that they will never want to try it again.