I want to start this by saying that, for anyone reading this that has had years of experience with an escort, that I am very new to this and, even though I am not discouraged by what happened, I do wish I had learnt this lesson beforehand. There was nothing dangerous about it or anything but, it truly put into perspective the way that I should be going at this. With all that said, this happened to me just a month or two ago so everything is still a bit fresh in my mind, however, I have had dates with other escorts since then and, because of this lesson that I learnt, they all went perfectly fine.
Let’s start from the beginning. It was my first time hiring an escort so, I really did not quite know what I was doing, all I knew from my research was that I needed to tell them what I wanted to get out of the encounter and we needed to agree on a fee for their time. I found this beautiful escort that definitely made my jaw drop and I read her description. In her description, she stated that she would do anything, that she was kinky and that she didn’t mind exploring and I thought that was very interesting so, when we were arranging our meeting and she asked me what I wanted to happen, I told her that I wanted her to surprise me and, well, that was a big mistake.
When the day of the date came, I was incredibly nervous but everything went well. We had great conversations as a starter and an amazing dinner to top it off and then we went to the hotel room for some nice romantic action. She had this look on her face that she knew what she was about to do and that I was absolutely going to love it but god, was she wrong. After some very fiery kissing and a lot of clothes on the floor, she stood up and put her hand on her bag and, that is when I knew something was not right.
Out of the bag, she pulled a whip and at that point, I was scared for my life. Don’t get me wrong, I know that a lot of people are into that and I definitely don’t judge them but, it was my first time with an escort and I am not really into pain at all so, that was scary for me. I told her I didn’t want the whip and she said she was going to use it anyway, that she knew how much men like me love to play hard. I believe she was playing a dominant role where she would force it on me and I don’t believe she had bad intentions, it is just that some people are into such a thing of playing hard and getting it hard.
Needless to say, we finished the session a lot earlier than I wanted and I definitely discovered my turn-off. Long story short, when you are hiring an escort, make sure you are clear with what you want and that you leave no room for surprises unless they are a regular and you are very comfortable with them.