Threesomes can truly be incredible experiences. They can heal marriages and relationships, they can spark the flame again and they can fulfill the deepest sexual fantasies out there however, that doesn’t always mean that it is all rainbows and sunshine! Unfortunately, sometimes, threesomes do not really go as plan and things can become downright unpleasant really fast. Perhaps the person you were having a threesome with starting being a little bit too dedicated to your partner or, perhaps they were being greedy and were taking all the pleasure for themselves, not caring about the others that they were in bed with, either way, threesomes can go wrong and that’s just a reality.
However, it is important to know that, much like anything in life, just because you had a bad episode with a threesome, that doesn’t mean that you should completely dismiss it for the rest of your life (unless you didn’t like the experience of having a threesome at all). Sure, it can be quite awkward when a threesome goes wrong but, what could you do when that happens? Well, that is what we will be answering today!
Clear Communication Is Key For Prevention!
Let’s start with the best way to deal with threesomes that go wrong and that is simply by avoiding that from happening! Sometimes, threesomes can happen on a whim and, even though that can be truly amazing, it can also lead to some very unpleasant and awkward moments. A great way to avoid things going south is to have clear communication with the people you are having a threesome with before it even happens!
Making sure that they know what you are not comfortable doing or, setting proper boundaries and safe words just in case things still don’t go as planned can be of great help to avoiding an absolute sexual disaster.
Don’t Be Afraid To Stop
If you are in the middle of the threesome and you start feeling uncomfortable or something is happening that you are not happy with, do not be afraid to stop in your tracks and let everyone know what is going on. This still ties into the communication aspect of it however, this is mostly while you are already deep into the threesome. If you are feeling bad about it just let your partners know that you can’t keep going and that you would like it to fully stop and, as grown adults, they should respect your boundaries.
Sure, it may be a bit awkward at first to have to do that but, it is better to stop while you still have time, rather than feeling bad for weeks on end once the threesome is done.
Just Avoid Them
If the threesome has gone fully south and you cannot even stand looking at the people you had sex with in the face anymore, just let them go. A Threesome is not supposed to be a seal of a relationship, it is only supposed to be a fun sexual experience, therefore, you do not have to keep inviting them to threesomes or activities when you don’t want to do.
You are free to keep the people you want in your life and vice versa so, if things are not working out, just don’t try to force it.