Maybe you thought it was harmless to have some fun with an escort, but the fun stopped when your significant other found out about it. Now you're panicking because you don't really know what to do next and how to go about it. Before you drive yourself crazy with worry, here are some suggestions to start you off on making amends:
Apologise and accept responsibility
So you got caught with an escort and there's no use denying it. The best you can do is to apologise to your wife or girlfriend. There's hardly a need for grand gestures such as flowers, fancy restaurants or gifts, but a truly sincere apology will likely go a long way in this situation. This is also the time for you to accept the responsibility that your actions have hurt another person who cared deeply for you.
Be honest and make a decision
This one is hard – you're going to have to take a look at yourself and ask yourself if you will likely visit an escort again in future. Be honest about where you are right now and what you want. If you are looking to save your relationship, you will have to make a decision to stop your behaviour. If your relationship is beyond mending, you would also have to make a decision to end it completely.
Seek help and be patient
You might be visiting an escort for different needs but if you have an addiction to escorts or sex, do take action to seek help for your behaviour to keep it under control. It is also important for you to speak to a professional therapist together with your significant other, if you both want to keep the relationship working. Keep in mind that changes won't happen overnight and you might have some setbacks, but do be patient with yourself to overcome any obstacles.
Everyone makes mistakes and you are more likely to be forgiven if you decide to take the first steps towards the right direction to correct them. Also, no escort wants to be with someone who worries constantly when they are together, instead of having fun and enjoying themselves. Good luck!