While terms like sexual pleasures and sex techniques are highly subjective to an individual, people usually get to deal with the dilemma of getting to know what their sex partner is open to most especially in partners that they’re not very familiar with sexually.
Sex by its standard is pleasure but every one doesn’t want or give it the same way. It could really be frustrating for a sexually adventurous person who looks to have a sexual interaction with one who might not be so wild sexually because they’re obviously on different frequencies but also on the same road, psychologically hoping to attain the apex of the pleasure at the end of their encounter. The role of sex in a relationship or that sort of commitment cannot be overstated and apparently, having it right and tasty is not even a bargain.
In sex scenes, there are actually a handful of stuffs that could look really hurtful, it’s a good kind of scare because most of them are responded to with inverse reactions and expressions by one’s sex partner. Of course it’s common to have people screaming during sex, some go as far as letting out their tears and others just wail, sometimes for fun and other times because of the excruciating pains they have to deal with and to also signal their sex buddy that the anticipated pleasure is far out of reach.
The English diction places pain and pleasure on opposite ends and to a high degree this is correct, but the oxymoron “pleasurable pain” is very much existent in the sex diction and this too to a very high degree is accurate, because after all not all pains are pleasurable. Some women love to have their boobs literally squeezed like the udder when being mistreated to get milk, some others love to be choked until they virtually see their lives threatening to walk away from their body,some love to have their hair pulled until the colour of their skin transcends into a different one due to the pressure of the pull, fetish is a thing and a lot of people have got theirs but we’re not about fetish on this one.
Why go for a hit if you have no intention of hitting it on the spot? It’s not untrue that most women appreciate men with bigger tools than the average “tiny” or just proper average, sometimes not too big but just enough over the average mark. There can only be an explanation for that: they want to feel it in their innermost places but then some women don’t love it when their cervix is pounded so hardly and constantly. The cervix is the part of the womb that connects with the superior portion of the vagina, it cannot be reached by the fingers except by the penis or sex toys. Some ladies want it fierce, deep and they love to have the tip of the wood in the vagina tingle them up to the cervix.
Undoubtedly, hitting the cervix during intercourse is one of those forms of pain that could count as “pleasurable” if tingled mildly or in a manner suiting to the taste of your woman, when the cervix gets pounded fiercely in some people, it takes away the pleasure and leaves the pain. Again, understanding your sex buddy and how she loves to be hit is essential for an excellent experience.