Being an escort is a very arduous and emotionally heavy profession. It is more than just sex and, most often than not, you have to dive deep into your client’s mind in order to know what they need, want and what they might not like as well!
Being an escort is a lot more than just having a nice body that someone can have fun with, it is all about the companionship as well and, sometimes, that is the best thing you can offer to a client!
Because of how important the mental aspect of being an escort is, it is crucial to know how to read your client’s emotions, desires and mental state, in order to provide them with the best possible service!
In this post, we will touch on some ways you can read your client’s mind and body successfully in order to give them what they want and what they need!
Pay Attention To Words
Usually (but not always) a date with a client involves a dinner or a nice conversation with a few drinks. Sure, there are those clients that would rather jump to the bedroom first thing when they get in touch with you, however, those are not the type of clients we’ll be talking about today!
For these kinds of clients, a starting conversation to really get to know each other a bit (and even get comfortable with each other) is important and, if you know how to read the subtlety of their words, it can prove to be quite valuable as well!
You must remember that you are a worker that the client most likely never had any interaction with aside from scheduling the date so, it is natural that they won’t be telling you everything that is going on in their lives.
Even though this might be true, there’s usually some hinting here and there on what they need, even if they don’t directly say it! For example, if they talk about being lonely or not getting much attention, they most likely want something more passionate or loving rather than some wild sex. While if they keep complimenting your looks non-stop and telling you how sexy you are, that most likely means that they want the wildest night they can get!
This obviously differs from person to person, with some people being a lot better at hiding their needs than others but, most often than not, there is always a hint here and there on the words they speak.
Don’t Ignore Body Language
Body language is another great factor in reading a client. This can truly determine how comfortable they feel with you and, even making you understand if you did something that made them uncomfortable or something that they really liked!
For example, if someone is uncomfortable or very nervous, they might have a much stiffer body language, which instantly gives you the opportunity to remedy that and try your best to make them comfortable while, others where you may have done something that they really like, will have a more fluid body language and may even visually relax a lot more than before!
Overall, everyone is different but you should always try to understand your client’s mind, which is something that comes with experience.