I was only twenty years old when I met my boyfriend and, not long after we met, we became official. We were a definite match, of that there is no doubt, however, I am now twenty-six years old and, as you may expect, spending so many years with the same person, sex started to become a little bit stale and we started craving new experiences.
Since we started dating while we were both so young, it’s not like we had a lot of time to explore with other people and, even though you could argue that we should have tried an open relationship or a threesome here and there, that has always been completely out of the question seeing we both don’t want to see each other having sex with someone else.
My boyfriend always had the fantasy of being submissive however, when we would get down and dirty, he would succumb to the pressure of being a man (due to what society has deemed as the norm) and would always end up being the dominant one. Don’t get me wrong, he enjoyed being dominant but the thought of being submissive has always been in the back of his mind, as he always told me, he just didn’t have the courage to be submissive and felt awkward when trying to be the one pushing it so, one day, I decided to take the first step and surprise him.
I ordered some handcuffs online (without him knowing) and was waiting for the right moment and, one evening, as we were cuddling on the couch, watching a movie, things started getting heated and we decided to go to the bedroom.
This wasn’t particularly unusual, however, it was when we stepped into the bedroom that his face completely lit up.
As soon as we got in, I closed the door behind him and pushed him against it, kissing his neck and grabbing his crotch, making sure that he felt like I was in command and, yeah, he instantly got hard, which was my confirmation that he enjoyed that first engagement.
After making my intentions known, I went and grabbed the handcuffs from the wardrobe and handcuffed him against the bed frame where he laid. I could tell he was surprised and nervous but absolutely loving every second of it.
As the minutes went on, I took more and more control of his body, utilizing him as my pleasure machine, being the master of the situation and the owner of his body and, I can safely say that I don’t think I’ve ever heard him moaning like he did that day.
After we were both fully satisfied and gasping for air, he confessed to me that he was not expecting that but that it was one of the best experiences he ever had and that he was very glad I took the first step.
So, long story short, if you know your boyfriend wants to try and be submissive but, you feel like he is nervous or afraid of taking the first step, do it yourself because, much like what happened that day, I am sure your partner will thank you for it!