The main aim of every business is profitability and, ultimately, clients’ satisfaction. As an escort, providing your clients with the utmost satisfaction is key to running a successful business, and this can be achieved by learning the proper steps to giving a perfect lap dance. One major misconception about lap dances is that only professionals can do it. The truth is anybody can give a lap dance. Even if you don't have rhythm and probably can't dance to the beat of a song. All you need is confidence, your A-game, and your sultry vibe, and let the music do the rest. Follow these few steps and become a pro in no time.
Steps To Becoming a Perfect Lap Dancer
Have a good song playlist.
Once the mood is set, what is left for you to do is minimal. A good song sets the mood and, in turn, gives off that aura of sexiness. One genre of music you can never go wrong with is R n B. Thus, make sure you have several songs cued up on your playlist. It will be awkward if the music stops right in the middle of the action. Ideally, a lap dance is supposed to last two songs, giving enough time for you to show your seductive moves and tease your client.
Wear a seductive outfit.
Remember, the goal is to make you feel sexy and desired. Wearing something that makes you feel highly sexy fuels your confidence; you have to be confident to feel confident. It's always advisable to wear enough layers, especially if the lap dance will lead to stripping and maybe sex. When undressing, remove the layers gradually; this will help build tension in your client; The main aim of a lap dance is to tease.
Sexy lingerie paired with high thigh stockings and what I like to call ‘fuck me heels’ always does the trick. Just make sure you practice and walk around with the heels before showtime. It will be embarrassing to have you wobbling in heels while your client watches.
Dim the lights.
Just as the right choice of music sets the mood for your performance, having the right lights setting does the same. Do not make it so dark that your client can't see you; eye contact is very essential. Light up candles, scented ones preferably to add spice to your whole performance.
Choose a comfortable chair.
A chair with an armrest or a couch is ideal, as it would give grip and balance while you grind your partner, and a couch will provide more room to straddle your partner.
In all you do, please never use a chair or platform without balance to prevent falling off. It's not worth breaking a neck over. You do not want to embarrass yourself in front of clients.
Insider’s takeaway.
The rest boils down to your rehearsed steps. You should know what you want to do and how to deliver before going in blindly. Remember to make eye contact; looking into your client’s eyes fuels their excitement. It is all in the movement of your body, slow grind, heat build-up, and that’s all it takes. Perfect all these, and your client stands to have the most memorable time ever.