How to Get Started in BDSM

BDSM is not an alien term anymore! Each one of us is aware of what’s that. Thanks to E.L James and the popular flick Fifty Shades of Grey. But when you talk to the “real BDSM experts”, they would right away reject the kind of portrayal that has been shown in the movie. So how do you get started in BDSM? Let’s find out.
 
1.Think about your needs
Before getting into the act, think about what you need and what you don’t need? Do you want to play a sub or a dom? If you want to be a sub, you should be ready to be spanked and whipped by your dom and you have to obey his orders. Or do you want to be a mix of both? So sit down with your partner and prepare a list to the questions having answers in a “Yes”, “No”, or “Maybe”. Then go a little ahead and jot down your fantasies, roleplays, kinks, different positions, over it. After analysing your answers, you can decide what role you wish to play. The acts in BDSM are endless, but prior to starting, you need to figure out what YOU really want. So do some soul searching and get to the bottom line.

2. Practice is the Mantra for BDSM
Undoubtedly, BDSM is not a child’s play. You need to be calm, composed, and should know how to balance during the act. So as the adage goes, “Practice makes a man perfect”, that is completely true out here. Sexual practice will let you know how to tie that knot perfectly or whether you are slapping hard or soft or just right at your sub’s body part. Therefore, maintaining a fine tune in your act is quintessential.

3. Finding Play Partners
As already mentioned, BDSM is not an alien term, but many fascinate and often get pessimistic about “THE ACT”. If you are in a relationship, speak to your partner about it. Maybe he/she would want to try it too, but not having the guts to bring it up. But, as they say, “Variety is the spice of life”. Turn the heat quotient on, and get ready to play. Else, you have other options available online to find the expert kinksters, dominatrix and submissives.

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