I’m referring to anal play. The subject is still taboo in public but research points to increasing exploration of the hole. Anal play doesn’t necessarily include penetration and it doesn’t have to. Though anal play may be getting popular now, it doesn’t mean you have to make it a part of your sexual itinerary. In case you meet a client who likes to indulge in it or just for your personal exploration, we’ll be discussing key things about the seldom explored hole.
Learn about it
The anus is packed with a lot of nerve-endings and that means it is highly excitable. The opening of the anus contains the most innervation. The anus is most receptive to feelings of fullness or pressure. Applying pressure to the ventral wall a couple of inches in will stimulate the prostate gland (some people call this the male G-spot) and the tip of the clitoral body can be excited through the anus. Most people have hair around the anal opening, so don’t be weirded out by that.
How does it work
As a novice to this hole, you should take it slow. It requires time for the involuntary muscles guarding the opening to relax and allow anal stimulation or penetration. This pleasure can be administered using mouth, fingers or toys. Just play around the rim can be just as thrilling.
If you are venturing into anal penetration then lube is your best buddy. The rectum can not provide its own lubrication but you have to find a way to protect the delicate skin from abrasions. It is best to begin with a very small toy or a finger. Penetration can be discomforting and if you notice increasing tightness you should slow down and try to make yourself (if you are receiver) or client more relaxed.
If you are not used to anal penetration, the sensation might be odd. It could feel like you need to go number
2. This is normal and it takes patience and practice for the feeling to become pleasurable.
Toys
If you are playing with anal toys, ensure they have a sessile base. An anal plug is a typical example. Without a flared base, the object can get stuck in the rectum. Who would want to be rushed to the emergency room with such a complaint?
Other types of anal toys include various shapes and sizes of dildos, vibrators and anal beads.
Health
Anal play is considered higher risk for infections. You should consult your health care provider about what is safe-sex when it comes to the anus. Many people are self-conscious about cleanliness during anal play and this can hamper receiving or giving pleasure during the act. Washing the area or using a wet wipe is sufficient for some but others go extra and use their fingers to clean the rectum when in the shower.
Anal play helps you learn more about your body and gives you a whole other realm of pleasure. You should consider bringing up this kind of action when you are meeting a client. It is premium service.