With Fifty Shades of Grey, the popular literature depicting the world of BDSM and selling billions of copies worldwide, has made the world aware of it. But, not everything that is portrayed in the movie stands correct. BDSM is not just about flouting your partner’s consent or do not think about the safety concern. In reality, the kink world is based on having safe, consensual and responsible erotic power play.
To those who are still not aware of BDSM allow us to enlighten you. BDSM stands for Bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism. Many who are untouched by its magic feel that it is dehumanizing, but only the true aficionados know that this form nurtures the most intimate human contact.
As already mentioned above, BDSM is a range of erotic practices where partners involved take on two roles - submissive (sub) and dominant (dom). The sub has to agree to dom’s commands. The pleasure here is attained through pain. The dom can spank, tie, spank or whip the sub and the receiver enjoys it. Then there’s edging and forced orgasms where the dom brings sub to a point where the latter has attained orgasm while the former refuse release. Then the forced orgasm is self-explanatory. Not all love doing all the things, but they do form an intrinsic part of BDSM.
The core part of BDSM is consensus. Both the dom and the sub decide on the play that is to be played before hand and both decide their boundaries. It is a crime if one steps ahead of their boundary. If a sub doesn’t want to be spanked, the dom shouldn’t do it. Therefore, the fun in BDSM arises from the plain fact that the players had to adhere to the boundaries. At any point of time, any player can say a safe word for the other to stop.
It takes a lot of time and patience to master BDSM. It is not like plain missionary position sex. It is much much more than just that. There might be chances that initially, you may hurt your partner by tying up. You should know how to keep the rope loose enough so that it doesn’t get stuck to your partner’s skin. And it shouldn’t be too sloppy which increases the chances of getting hurt.
So welcome to this world. Experience the beauty and love that it entails and nurtures. Couples who practice BDSM says, their relationship has gone headstrong. Obviously, it adds variety to just plain sex and intimacy. When are you starting with it?
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