The word fetish many bring to mind pictures of whips and mouth-gags but that is a very limited idea of what it actually means. Most of us have fetishes but we only become aware that it is an unusual sexual taste when someone’s face gets wrung up after we mention our interest. There are several reasons to update yourself on kinks, you could discover an activity that you never knew could be so pleasing or it could be easier for you to open up to trying it with someone who is into that kinda stuff.
Foot fetish
This is basically the desire to worship feet through acts such as kissing, sucking, smelling and massaging. It is as extremely popular a fetish as one could get. Feet are packed with nerve-endings so it makes sense that they would be a source of pleasure. There is a usually an element of dominance and submission involved in a foot fetish with the fetishist wanting to have your feet placed on their face or vice versa.
Sensation play
This encompasses a range of activities based on withholding or receiving different stimuli. A common form of this is blindfolding. The thing about sensory deprivation as most of us know if that the other senses light up. Caressing your partner with feathers or strands of hair would send them wild if they are into it.
Voyeurism
If you are into obtaining sexual pleasure from watching others who are naked or having sex (outside of porn), you are a voyeur. Consent is important in all forms of sexual activity, so don’t go around being a peeping-tom. You can do a strip-tease for someone who is into this or even make it wilder and let them watch while you engage in masturbation or have sex with someone else if they don’t mind.
Lingerie
Lingerie is sexy, we all know that but it becomes a fetish when its presence is necessary in a sexual scenario for a person to fully engage or orgasm. Lingerie is an example of a lesser-used definition of a fetish: an attraction to an object. If you notice a partner has special interest in this, get some racy lingerie and light up the bedroom.
Anal Sex
This is only considered a fetish if it is central to a person’s pleasure during sex. Anal play also includes tucking a finger in the ass during foreplay or vaginal sex to using butt plugs or dildos. Anal play has become less stigmatized in recent times and that’s great because it holds a lot of pleasure waiting to be explored. Since the butthole is not as well lubricated as a vagina and is germ-ridden, pick up lots of lube and learn about ass etiquette before you engage in the fun stuff.
Even though most of us are keen on having more sex, most of us just let it get dull because we are not willing to try new stuff. Add a bunch of skills to your sexual armory and you might just find out sexy secrets about yourself.