As an escort, you would definitely get many first-time clients. It is often younger guys who want to experience sex, but not with a love interest to avoid the embarrassment. They would rather pay for the escort service and rely on your professionalism. They have the guarantee that you will not laugh at their efforts and probably mock them for it. They are usually college freshmen or geeks who lack social skills. On some rare cases, we have a father who wants his son to learn about sex and you would actually be asked to teach him how to have sex with a woman. Whatever the situation might be, you are the professional and must stay totally in charge.
You can easily spot the first timers. The mannerisms are a dead giveaway. First-time clients tend to be very nervous and tense in the beginning. Some are a bit uncomfortable about the whole situation and may even be embarrassed about being together with an escort. You have to take the initiative and guide him. You should not expect a lot of action from his side because he could be clueless on how to properly give a kiss or fondle your boobs.
You slowly make him relax by taking a few steps:
1. Starting with oral sex. During that time, you would work on getting yourself aroused too and ready for penetration. With his cock erect, you should lay back and let him get in between your legs.
2. Avoid being on top when you are with first timers, because that way, they end up not learning how to fuck properly – either going too fast and not deep enough.
3. Remember you are his teacher here. When he is in you, hold his waist and show him how to move. Let him know when he is getting it right by moaning and encouraging him.
4. Make him feel good and more comfortable to give it his best.
5. Treat him delicately, but with respect. It’s potentially a precarious situation since egos and emotions can be running high and the chance that someone might be offended or let down is great.
It might seem tempting, but there are a couple of things you should not try with a first timer – drugs, excessive drinking and dangerous sex acts. One could get carried away with wanting to make him never forget the experience, but these create unrealistic expectations. Some men go on to only enjoy sex under the influence of substances while some become sex deviants.
The rule is to do the basics. Break him into sex slowly, show him the pleasure spots on a woman’s body and teach him how to stroke the vaginal walls when he is fucking. Make him understand that he cannot master the art of sex in just one encounter and that women’s bodies differ. If he wants to satisfy his curiosity by touching you, let him. Show him the right ways to do it and give him his money’s worth.