Too much of anything and everything they say is bad. And this includes sex, but the big question is “How much sex is enough on the average?” Well, there are two ways to answer this, scientifically, having less than 10 mins of sex a year in a marriage situation is enough to tag it a sexless marriage. While some people are sex maniacs and can go over and over again in a sex situation, others may think one or two rounds of sex is enough, thus, their non-enthusiasm over sex (which is quite normal).
We won’t bother ourselves trying to bore you with some confusing scientific statistics on how much sex we need as humans, but I will always advise you based on the fundamental norm which is, “not to go overboard“ when it comes to sex matters. Some do engage in the consumption of sex boosting drugs to enhance their sex performance, making them stay longer than usual. This is exactly what we adverse against, trying to get more than enough sex than your body needs.
We are all created differently; how long an individual takes to have an orgasm differ from the other. Trying to imitate someone with different sexual characteristics may lead to the other to consume sex enhancement drugs, which could pose some level of threat to your sexual health. The point here is, know what works for you, then stick to it. Understand your sexual preferences, and do not make the mistake of trying to compare yourself to others.
But for married couples, you need to know what works for you; if having sex once a week is cool, then stick to it and don‘t try to stretch it. This is why the need for couples to experiment on their sex life is important.
Scientifically, couples who have more sex tend to have a happier marriage life. But we all also know that some are too busy for a sex adventure, this isn’t weird, some people can have a very low libido which is the reason behind their lack of interest in sex.
Finally, there is no law or a static sexual gauge for humans to abide by, search yourself, know what works for you, then stick with it. Married couples should work hand in hand with their partner to achieve that needed sex life you have always asked for.