Squirting – a feminine bodily function that’s been around since the first woman yet somewhat somehow, people still don’t know much about it. The fact that its very essence is deeply drenched in ambiguity is what makes it exiting. Understanding it is as elusive as the very act is, to many women. Interestingly, women misunderstand it just as men do. As much as much isn’t known about though, there are squirting basics you should know, especially if you want to see your partner squirt or experience it on yourself for the first time. Read on to learn more.
It’s all about G-Spot Stimulation
Forget about what you’ve learnt about squirting from porn. With all the gimmicks and trickery you may have seen, squirting really boils down to effective G-spot and clitoral stimulation. Have your partner hit your G-spot and stimulate you clitoris gently but long enough and your vulva will certainly gush like a water fall.
Pee or Water?
This confuses both men and women in equal measure. The answer is simple. No, that isn’t pee. It isn’t water either. It is rather a combination of uric acid, area and creatinine. All these are released by the Skene’s gland which is tucked at the lower end of the urethra. Here’s what’s strange. Not so many people know where Skene’s gland is. That is why squirting is elusive to many. Once you find it, all you have to do is stimulate the clitoris. Once stimulation goes on simultaneously and consistently, squirting becomes inevitable.
Some Sex Positions Make It Possible
Yes, you read that right. Some sex positions increase one’s chances of having an orgasm. Note though, that any sex position that stimulates the clit and the G-Spot simultaneously can make one squirt.
• Doggy style – doggy style provides the perfect angle for your partner to access the front vaginal wall where the G-spot is. Get on all fours with your penetrating partner positioned on his or her knees from behind. Encourage your partner to stroke and pump shallowly. Widen your knees as your partner pumps. Drop to your forearms so as to slightly alter the angle of penetration. Have your partner hold a vibrator near your clit or using your stretch your hand between your legs to access gently play with your clit.
• Manual Missionary - The trick here is simple. Lie on your back and touch your clit as your partner enters you. Alternatively, have your partner perform cunnilingus as he or she fingers you. To squirt, ensure your partner’s index and middle fingers do the fingering. Once inside the vulva, ensure that they are curled up towards your bellow button. Have your partner release the curled fingers as though signal someone to, ‘come here.’ As this happens, reach out to your clit using a vibrator or encourage your partner to tongue the clit.
You Can Squirt On Your Own
Yes, you can make yourself squirt and yes, you have to masturbate for it to happen. You must first relax though because squirting can’t just happen if you’re not in the right mind-set. Once you’re relaxed, take time to gently explore all your erogenous zones. Think of it as a solo foreplay. It is simple. Warm up your brain to the idea by gently touching your inner thigh, neck, nipples and lower stomach with a vibrator, your fingers or even a feather teaser.
Stimulate your vagina so as to get all revved up and wet before touching and playing with your clit. A clit stimulation toy would come in handy here. Clit suction toys are particularly ideal as they use pleasure air technology to stimulate oral sex.
Find Your G-Spot
Forget about squirting if you or your partner can’t find the G-spot. Fortunately, the G-spot becomes more pronounced when you’re super wet and aroused. This means you’re better off finding it when you’re super horny. As you touch your clitoris, use your fingers or wand to locate your G-spot and massage it. Keep going until you squirt. You may feel the urge to pee before water gushes or it may happen before you know it.
The Bottom Line
Squirting is real. It also feels good. While it may be elusive at first, it’s certainly possible. Don’t feel bad though if it doesn’t happen. Some women can’t just squirt. The good news however, is that you can still enjoy sex and even have multiple orgasm without squirting. Remember to be patient too as you practice every once in a while how to squirt.